A Nigerian man has found himself in a dilemma after unravelling the darkest secret of the woman he planned on walking down the aisle and starting a new family with.
Narrating his ordeal, the man who appeared to be in a serious state of confusion, disclosed that he met his bride-to-be some eight months ago and started a relationship with her.
However, he was shocked to learn on their wedding day that the woman he intends to spend the rest of his life with has 3 children with another man.
Apparently, the man received the jaw-dropping news through his uncle who seemed to have conducted a background search on his nephew’s wife-to-be and quickly redeemed him from what would have been a deep mess.
The woman finally confessed after the man confronted her, and that’s where it emerged that she has a 13-year-old son, 8-year-old son and 6-year-old daughter.
Below is the unedited account of the man.
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don’t know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn’t myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That’s how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don’t want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn’t talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don’t do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can’t trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn’t come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sign for me in the court
I don’t know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don’t know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ?